You will hear the phrase, “Remember, if you don’t understand ASK!” Many times. Misunderstanding is the number one reason for conflicts. Nations misunderstand other nations' intents, so they go to war. People misunderstand each other, and they get angry with each other. It is better to get clarity and confirmation before you accuse someone. No two humans are exactly alike and that goes for our perception of things. Our biases and feelings cloud everything we think we know at the time of storing information in our memories. Therefore, if we were having a bad day when we met someone new, our memory may not be justly favorable towards that person. We need to rethink all our old memories when we are in a good mood and replace them with the new, improved memory.